善良是医生最重要的品格

现在有个别北上广大城市大型三甲医院的科主任那真是非常飘呀。开口我很牛，闭口认为自已赶超欧美，天天优越感十足。谁都还看不上，恨不得把别人踩在地下，人人都去跪舔他，这是何种心理？这简直就是个笑话。你很牛这话不应你讲出口，最好全世界向你来表白。在医院那是没人敢说他们，病人花了钱也得忍气吞声，听说连科室找他签个名都得提前预约，这简直是官僚成性了吧。比自已弱小的人我们应该尊重，比自已强大的人我们应该有原则，这是一个人最基本的教养。做医生不是比手术比谁牛。做医生比的就是善良。人心善良了，即使手术差点大家都还可以信任，手术技术未来还有进步的空间。我们只希望中国医院更好，中国医生更国际化，这是我们的工作，我们不愿看见医患矛盾，我们不愿让更多的医生被误解，我们更不愿让老百姓对中国医疗没有信心。其实中国二三线城市的许多科主任非常接地气，他们的医学水平与一线城市相比相差无几。关健是他们谦虚、真诚、懂得做人做事，愿意进步，真心希望科室变得更好。他们这些医生才是中国医院的希望。大家都喜欢讲好听的话，没人愿意把这些不好说出来，这四年的工作，我们看见部分中国医院大家都正朝着好的方向在发展在进步，不好的方面也希望大家真的要改变一下。说好听的话谁不会呀，如果是商人，我们就会左右逢源，如果我们这样，受伤害的永远是病人。我们只想中国的医院和专家都能成为更好的自已。

Currently in China, there are Directors of departments from large hospitals in megacities who are very arrogant. All they talk about is how excellent they are, and that how superior they are to the colleagues from the US, Europe and across China. They show no respect to anyone and look down upon others. What they enjoy is being flattered by blandishments. This mindset makes no sense but joking. Self-praise stinks, others praise stands. Nobody dares to challenge them in the hospital - the patients have to give in even if they pay for the service, and the colleagues have to make an appointment in advance even just for a signature. How bureaucratic! Respect people with less power than you, and hold on to your principles when facing people with more power than you. This is a foundational human quality. As a doctor, integrity is more important than surgical skills. Patients would rather trust a kind doctor even if their surgical techniques are not the top since these can be improved with time. Our vision and hope are to help the Chinese hospitals improve and to promote Chinese doctors’ internationalization. We don’t want patient-doctor disputes anymore, we don’t want one more doctor to be misunderstood, and we don’t want people to lose confidence in Chinese healthcare. Actually in China, many Directors from the second and third-tier cities are very approachable with compara