初中一年级,我在一次物理考试中考了全班倒数。物理老师把我父亲请到学校训话。我父亲直接对老师说:“我就这么一个女儿,一切都顺其自然,她学习不好又能怎么样呢?如果我们给她太大压力,她心理出了问题,这岂不是更不好吗?”那天回家,父亲一句批评的话也没有。快乐长大有多么重要,父亲离开我已经24年了,每当我想起他,只有温暖,只有幸福,他是我这一生之中唯一可以为我托底的人,无论他在与不在,无论我在高处还是底谷,我都可以平安度过。我总觉得自已无所不能。在他那个年代,他走南闯北,从城市到乡间,四处奔波,与其说是工作,不如说是生存。但是他们这群人的确建立了中国一座又一座著名的水电站。他的认知能力在这种生存的困境之中变得无比强大,我在他身边长大,他教会我一切面对困境的勇气。在这里,我要致敬我的父亲。
In the first grade of junior high school, I ranked near the bottom during one exam and my father was called to school by the physics teacher. My father said to the teacher that I only have one daughter. Just let nature take its course. It doesn’t matter at all if she cannot do well in school. If we put too much pressure on her, she may develop psychological problems. Isn't that even worse? After returning home that day, my father didn't say a word of blaming. How important it is to grow up happily with love. It's been 24 years since my father left me. Whenever I think of him, what I recall is only warmth and happiness. He is the only person who supports me endlessly in my life. Whether he is there or not, during my ups and downs. I can weather the shocks and crisis safely. I always feel that I am omnipotent. In his time, He measured the length and breadth of the country with his steps, travelling from urban areas to rural areas. It was more for survival than for work. But he and his co-workers did build one famous hydropower station after another in China. He developed extraordinary ability in such a difficult time. I grew up at his side, and he taught me the courage to face all difficulties. Here, I would like to to pay tribute to my father.